You're not Imagining it...
I see you
I see you
Even though it might sting—a lot—I know you’re keep it moving because you have things to do in the world, goals you will achieve. You are here to blow up broken systems and ways of being.
It might feel like you're the only person in the room who sees things the way you do, but the truth is that you're the only one brave enough to speak up, because can't not speak up, even when your voice is shaking, even it comes with a label.
Some people like you better when you play smaller. They don’t like the fact that you’re the one in charge, that you have opinions that are different, that you're willing to stand up and make change. They don't understand that is what you were designed to do.
But in spite of all of that you’re doing—you’re not afraid of working hard—these days, you feel…tired.
Those rules you’re supposed to follow about how women are supposed to be, about what you’re supposed to want, about how you should achieve. Those rules weren’t written with you in mind. Have they told you that you’re too driven, too selfish, too outspoken, too sensitive, too much? Me too.
But here's the truth...and it might hurt...
The more goals you check complete on your list, the less satisfied you are.
You can't keep pushing down and hiding how you’re feeling: alone.
You’re tired of being the person everyone else counts on.
You're tired of working all of the time.
You're tired of not feeling joy on the regular.
You Wonder, Is It Worth It?
It doesn't matter what everyone else sees unless you can see yourself.
introducing...
introducing...
“Having dedicated more than a decade to building and running my own successful creative business, I found myself seeking a purposeful next step in my artistic life and career"
- bess sturman, Yorkshire
When I signed up for Illuminate, I was making a choice to engage with the material deeply and so much has shifted. I started writing again. I took a lot of “maybes” off my list and I’ve created a plan for what I’m doing next. It’s a creative practice that I am sure to return to again and again.
“I didn't think it would be worth it. It was. I didn't think it would work for me. It did. I didn't think I'd be *that* success story. I am. ”
- jordan s.
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Join a group of women as individual as you are AS WE PRACTICE BECOMING VISIBLE, from the inside out.
What's the difference between boundaries and standards and what does your gut have to do with it? How can you expand and maintain your practice?
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Voice Lessons
You can't say the wrong thing to the right person or the right thing to the wrong person. What is the best way to speak up for yourself and the people you're here to serve?
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In “Vision”
What do you really, really want? What’s in the way of getting it? How can you become more creatively expressed and why does it matter?
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Embodiment
Why you deserve to do more than "take up space". How to own the room when you're the only woman in it.
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Visibility Barriers
How can you identify yours? How can you release them?
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Invisible Behaviors
What is the invisibility cake and how are you baked in? What are the behaviors that keep women invisible and why do they matter?
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Over 40 Days staring January 21, 2025 we will transform the ways we see ourselves and weave a whole identity.
How does this sound?
Here's what the Practice includes:
GROUP Coaching Sessions
In these live sessions lasting 75 minutes, we'll work through the practice materials as a group. If you choose, you'll have the opportunity to receive coaching around your questions.
SELF-PACED PODCAST BURSTS
Short audio podcasts of the practice material can be listened to at your own pace and on-the-go over the 40-day practice period.
FIND YOUR PEOPLE
As a part of this select group, you'll join an online practice room women where you can post your questions and share your stories in trust and truth. I believe that the group that is forming for this work in this moment is meant to do this work together.
Common Place Book.
You’ll learn to create a Common Place book for your practice so that it's repeatable, visual and beautiful. (1 Book Total)
...if you need more creative fulfilment...
...if you're playing small...
...if you're not telling your story...
...if you've been publically fired..
...if you've quietly quit...
...if you're tired of feeling invisible
If you're tired of pretending you are less than you are...
...like what you look like and wear matters more than what you say...
...if you're the only woman like you in the room...
...if you don't speak your truth...
...if you're not going for what you really want..
...like you need a bigger platform for the work you're here to do in the world...
...if you're squishing yourself into a life that satisfies other people’s opinions...
...if you're in transition between identities...
You were born with a purpose, one that you don’t need somebody else’s permission to live.
Show Up
Wholely
Recognition, whether it's being on TV, in a magazine.
Asking for (and receiving) more money for your creative work.
Taking a manuscript out of a drawer, or a paintbrush or a camera.
Making time to care for yourself at the same level you care for everyone else.
Telling the truth in your relationships, romantic and otherwise.
Leaving that soul-sucking, corporate job to start a creative business (and earn as much or more).
The way you become visible is as individual as your fingerprints.
practice
Learning to tell your story to, and for, the women in your community, stories that haven't been told.
This for you if:
You know you want change but aren't sure how
you want a lot of private coaching
you learn from other people's stories
you're not willing to adjust your calendar
you're open to receiving new ideas
It's probably for you if...
YOU're not open to receiving new ideas
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I may not be able to attend one of the LIVE Laser Coaching days, will sessions be recorded?
We do encourage participants to attend all of the live laser sessions January 21st - February 25th, 2025 but if you have to miss a call, the good news is that all sessions will be recorded and shared with program participants.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’m concerned about privacy.
The work we do together is sacred, in trust and truth. When you commit to this practice, you are making a commitment to honor the privacy and personal boundaries of each participant in this group and to give each member your full respect. That’s listed in our TERMS & CONDITIONS. With your purchase, you agree not to disclose, mine, or share any member's private information. What happens in the group stays in the group.
I’ve tried online programs before, how is this one different.
The simplest answer I can give is that if you haven’t worked with me before then it would be impossible for you to compare the results of this program with another online offer. Your results are directly related to your commitment.
I’m really busy right now. Can I buy the practice in a few months?
If you are in transition, then the timing for this practice is now. Life doesn't stop, ever. The goal with this practice is to incorporate it into your way of being now. Remember, part of the work we do is making space and that means saying “yes” to a whole way of being in real time.
I would like my team members to participate, is there a group rate?
We have different trainings available for teams. Use our website contact page to schedule a time to speak about them.
What if I don’t have a vision for myself that I can see clearly?
That’s the whole point of doing this work together. It is my firm belief that we all know the answers IF we’re asked the right questions and that’s where I can help. I ask A LOT of questions. Also, being in community with other women who may articulate something you’ve been feeling, but can’t put words to, is powerful. Start where you’re at, it's the only place you can begin and the most powerful one.
I like her story but what are Kim's credentials?
Kim Kuhteubl is an award-winning producer, author and member of the Producers Guild of America. She's worked both in front of and behind the camera. Working with creatives as a coach since 2011, she's now helped hundreds become visible. Many have been traditionally published and a few have won licensing and television deals. As a coach, she is gifted at helping people navigate the terrain between the unseen world of emotions and ideas and the way you want your life to be.
I love working in a group but I’m worried I will need more help.
If you need even more personal attention and don’t feel like you'll get enough working in a group, or if you’re more of a “starter” than a “finisher”, I offer private coaching to creatives who need more accountability.
My significant other doesn’t want me to spend the money.
If you’ve never invested in yourself in this way, you might have a hard time explaining the values of invisible results like confidence, joy, creativity and clarity to a partner who is always worried about money, or who manages the way you spend it on yourself and your growth. We will learn to re-negotiate your emotional contracts in this program and this is the first one. You are the sovereign of your soul. If you are determined to allow more for yourself now, know that you will also be creating more for your partner and your kids too. If you’re not used to taking care of yourself at the same level you take care of everyone else, it’s time.
What if I don’t have a vision for myself that I can see clearly?
That’s the whole point of doing this work together. It is my firm belief that we all know the answers IF we’re asked the right questions and that’s where I can help. I ask a lot of questions. Starting where you’re at is the only place you can begin. Luckily it’s the most powerful place.
I see you
